We want to partner with you in marriage formation and enrichment

We have compiled a list below of common questions about using our assessments in your ministry. Please contact us via the form below for more information and specifics on bulk pricing. We look forward to talking with you to see where we can help to support your marriage programs.

Yes there is! We have special pricing programs available for a Church group, Parish or Diocese. Please contact us via the form below so we can connect and share our programs with you.

The To Be Known Marriage Assessment and Guides are designed with a few features that we believe makes them powerfully unique.

  • Our PDF Guides are visual and expressive, helping you to truly feel and experience the insights, not just read about them. We call them "Guides" because they are more than just reports. They guide you through the various modules and concepts.
  • We have worked hard to create a precise balance between meaningful, insightful detail and easy readability and understandability. The results in our Marriage Guides strike this balance.
  • Our Fundamental Self module uses robust, deeply insightful behavior and motivator metrics that are time-tested and reliable across a variety of applications and industries. Many other marriage assessment products do not dig deep into the fundamental self.
  • Our Love Dimensions module visualizes different ways that we communicate and receive love from each other. This section provides insights into how to most effectively communicate love to your partner, areas where you both may be experiencing or lacking fulfillment, and the different ways that you attempt to show love to each other. This depth simply doesn't exist in any other marriage assessment.
  • Our Family Of Origin module recognizes that our upbringing and family of origin has a significant impact on our emotional development and sense of well-being. These emotions often transfer into our marriage relationship in a variety of ways. The unique insights in this module give greater visualization and context to the rest of the guide, making the entire guide tell a story that cannot be told any other way.
  • Our Relationship Alignment modules do more than just indicate where two people agree, they get at the heart of marital misalignments on key topics and provide targeted room for growth suggestions on each page to make the Guide practical and effective for building a stronger marriage.
  • Like having your own Facilitator right there with you, our BEING KNOWN questions throughout the Guide actually walk you through the process of understanding the Guide, making couple conversations more fruitful and beneficial.

We have different implementation options that make the process of administering the assessment and receiving the PDF Guides simple and easy for both you and the couple. This can be arranged so that the organization pays for the assessments, or so that the couple pays directly. We customize a solution that works for your marriage formation program. Please contact us via the form below so we can connect and share our implementation options with you.

Unlike many other assessments, our Marriage Guides are self-guided and do not require a facilitator to guide the couple through the report. Having said this, facilitation may be beneficial to a couple and may provide additional insights. We are currently developing video walk throughs of each assessment module that will be available to each couple upon completion of the assessment. These videos will provide additional context and understanding to the PDF Guide to enhance the experience.

The number of questions in the marriage assessment varies, but is generally between 115 and 140 questions.

We generally find that most people can take the assessment in 30-45 minutes.

We recommend that you take the assessment alone (not near your spouse) in a quiet environment where you can think and reflect uninterrupted.

No. Once you start, you can stop at anytime. Your responses will be saved along the way, so you can return and pick up where you left off, even on a different device.

Yes, you can take the assessment on any device you like, but it will require an internet connection.

Yes you can. The Marriage Guide PDF is formatted to be printed on standard 8.5 x 11 paper. This may be an easier way to read it together.